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Notes on breath and stillness, written after living with it rather than reading about it.

Three short sessions instead of one, explained once properly
Breath and Stillness

Three short sessions instead of one, explained once properly

There is plenty written about three short sessions instead of one and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done on…

Verity LangVerity Lang·July 8, 2026·4 min read
How long until it counts as a habit: the full sequence and where it drifts
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How long until it counts as a habit: the full sequence and where it drifts

Anyone who has spent time on how long until it counts as a habit has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is…

Roland PikeRoland Pike·July 2, 2026·4 min read
Restarting after a break: judging it before you start
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Restarting after a break: judging it before you start

There is plenty written about restarting after a break and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done at the bedside,…

Amos ReillyAmos Reilly·June 26, 2026·4 min read
A three-minute breathing practice: three things to understand first
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A three-minute breathing practice: three things to understand first

Put a three-minute breathing practice back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good…

Curtis ValeCurtis Vale·June 20, 2026·4 min read
Getting abdominal breathing right: making the complicated part simple
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Getting abdominal breathing right: making the complicated part simple

Most people do not fail at getting abdominal breathing right from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is…

Verity LangVerity Lang·June 14, 2026·4 min read
What to do when your legs go numb: four details people skip
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What to do when your legs go numb: four details people skip

Put what to do when your legs go numb back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good…

Roland PikeRoland Pike·June 8, 2026·4 min read
Pace and counting in breath practice: what to do and what to skip
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Pace and counting in breath practice: what to do and what to skip

Put pace and counting in breath practice back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives…

Amos ReillyAmos Reilly·June 2, 2026·4 min read
Returning after your mind wanders: method, rhythm and limits
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Returning after your mind wanders: method, rhythm and limits

If you have already tried returning after your mind wanders and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Curtis ValeCurtis Vale·May 27, 2026·4 min read
The steadiest time of day to sit: a version you can actually follow
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The steadiest time of day to sit: a version you can actually follow

Advice on the steadiest time of day to sit tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some…

Verity LangVerity Lang·May 21, 2026·4 min read
Sitting versus a nap: the full sequence and where it drifts
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Sitting versus a nap: the full sequence and where it drifts

Let us set the limits of sitting versus a nap first: it reliably improves steadier sleep, and it does not deliver overnight. Anything promising…

Roland PikeRoland Pike·May 15, 2026·4 min read
Why a longer exhale calms you: the order that saves effort
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Why a longer exhale calms you: the order that saves effort

If you have already tried why a longer exhale calms you and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Amos ReillyAmos Reilly·May 9, 2026·4 min read
Two minutes before a meeting: the full sequence and where it drifts
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Two minutes before a meeting: the full sequence and where it drifts

Let us set the limits of two minutes before a meeting first: it reliably improves energy that holds through the afternoon, and it does not deliver…

Curtis ValeCurtis Vale·May 3, 2026·4 min read
A body scan before sleep: nine specific questions
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A body scan before sleep: nine specific questions

If you have already tried a body scan before sleep and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Verity LangVerity Lang·April 27, 2026·4 min read
Grounding techniques for anxiety: the full sequence and where it drifts
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Grounding techniques for anxiety: the full sequence and where it drifts

There is plenty written about grounding techniques for anxiety and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done on the…

Roland PikeRoland Pike·April 21, 2026·4 min read
Eyes open or closed: what to do and what to skip
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Eyes open or closed: what to do and what to skip

Advice on eyes open or closed tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and some…

Amos ReillyAmos Reilly·April 15, 2026·4 min read
Choosing cushion height: three things to understand first
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Choosing cushion height: three things to understand first

Most people want choosing cushion height to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Curtis ValeCurtis Vale·April 9, 2026·4 min read
Is ten minutes enough: method, rhythm and limits
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Is ten minutes enough: method, rhythm and limits

Anyone who has spent time on is ten minutes enough has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not another…

Verity LangVerity Lang·April 3, 2026·4 min read
Are meditation apps worth paying for: method, rhythm and limits
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Are meditation apps worth paying for: method, rhythm and limits

Anyone who has spent time on are meditation apps worth paying for has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This…

Roland PikeRoland Pike·March 28, 2026·4 min read
Breathing practice and blood pressure: three things to understand first
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Breathing practice and blood pressure: three things to understand first

Advice on breathing practice and blood pressure tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some…

Amos ReillyAmos Reilly·March 22, 2026·4 min read
Why you feel sleepy after sitting: three things to understand first
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Why you feel sleepy after sitting: three things to understand first

If you have already tried why you feel sleepy after sitting and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Curtis ValeCurtis Vale·March 16, 2026·4 min read